{"id":100,"date":"2009-03-06T15:57:50","date_gmt":"2009-03-06T22:57:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aboutlistening.com\/wordpress-files\/?page_id=100"},"modified":"2009-03-06T16:19:45","modified_gmt":"2009-03-06T23:19:45","slug":"workshop-visuals","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/aboutlistening.com\/wordpress-files\/workshop-visuals","title":{"rendered":"Workshop Visuals"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>The Circle<\/h3>\n<pre>     IF YOU:\r\n           LISTEN WITH RESPECT...\r\n                 UNDERSTANDING,\r\n                       TRUST,\r\n                             LEARNING,\r\n           A NEW PERSPECTIVE\r\n                 GROWING,\r\n                       RESOLVING\r\n                             ADAPTING\r\n                                   WILL RESULT.<\/pre>\n<h3>Grounding<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Establishes a model for listening with respect, A knowing that each person will be heard.<\/li>\n<li>Establishes a verbal territory for each participant, a sense of potential equity<\/li>\n<li>Requires access to both the left and the right brain, engaging the &#8220;whole brain.<\/li>\n<li>Allows apprehensions and hopes for the meeting to be expressed.<\/li>\n<li>Allows participants to express hidden agendas (like leaving early, a flat tire, a sickness, etc.)<\/li>\n<li>Brings people into the &#8220;here and now\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Provides initial information to the facilitator.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Worst \/ Best \/ Possibility<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Worst Outcomes:<\/strong> These are feared <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">future<\/span> outcomes, often based on <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">past<\/span> experience, with a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">presently<\/span> experienced emotion and physical reaction.  When people believe them, they affect their perceptions, beliefs, values and strategies.  They tend to be self-fulfilling prophecies when strongly held.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Best Outcomes<\/strong>: These are hoped for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">future<\/span> outcomes, sometimes not <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">previously<\/span> experienced, but intensely imagined, with a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">presently<\/span> experienced emotion and physical response.  When people believe them, they affect their perceptions, beliefs, values and strategies.  They tend to be self-fulfilling prophecies when strongly held.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Possibility Thinking:<\/strong> An acknowledgment that both worst and best outcomes are present and inherent in each moment, up to, and often after the event.  This balanced view allows the movement toward desired outcomes.<\/p>\n<h3>Life-long Learning<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>What is the situation or experience?<\/li>\n<li>How do you feel about it?<\/li>\n<li>What did you learn that will&#8230;\n<ul>\n<li> make you successful?<\/li>\n<li> resolve the conflict?<\/li>\n<li> resolve the impasse?<\/li>\n<li> etc.?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>A Consensus Process<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>What is the situation?  How do I feel about it?<\/li>\n<li>What are my worst possible outcomes of the situation?<\/li>\n<li>What are my best possible outcomes of the situation?<\/li>\n<li>What beliefs, behaviors, strategies, and actions will foster my best possible outcomes?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Seeking Richness<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>What are two things I am grateful for?<\/li>\n<li>What are two things I am excited about?<\/li>\n<li>What are two things I enjoy?<\/li>\n<li>Who do I love?  Who loves me?<\/li>\n<li>What is the richness in my life?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>(Answer these questions at least once a day for a month and you will find a new level of appreciation of life.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Circle IF YOU: LISTEN WITH RESPECT&#8230; UNDERSTANDING, TRUST, LEARNING, A NEW PERSPECTIVE GROWING, RESOLVING ADAPTING WILL RESULT. Grounding Establishes a model for listening with respect, A knowing that each person will be heard. 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